Per usual, this is DEAD WRONG. But hey, I was a recruit, played D1 football, have hundreds of friends/teammates who went thru the process, hosted recruits myself, and have friends who are GAs/coaches. But I’m sure your resume compares and you know more?? Coaches ask kids for things all the time like this, and in many cases they follow it. Each situation is unique, obviously, but to suggest what you suggested is just ignorant and wrong.